How it works
 
 
 

1. Registration

 
Once you have paid the £5 registration fee you then have to order a pack (10) of cards, your first pack coming free of charge with your registration. Should you require more cards in the future you can purchase each additional pack for only £5.
Once you have processed your order you have 2 choices; either download and print them there and then (providing you have a printer close at hand) or request that we print them for you and post to the address you specify (please allow 7 days). Of course if you print the cards yourself you can start meeting people sooner and not miss an opportunity that same day.
 
 
 

2. Start using your cards

 
If you see somebody you like and do not have the courage to approach them and start a conversation or you do not wish to give them your phone number or email address simply hand them one of your cards (Before you give them the card make a note of the card number, write it down or put it in your phone).
 
 
 

3. Leave a message

 
When you are back at a computer simply come back to the web site and sign in using the username and password you created at registration. Within your own control panel you are able to see your current cards in a list; here you can add notes (to remind you of the place/person you gave the card out/to) and where you are able to leave that special message for the person you gave the card to.
 
 
 

4. See if they read it

 
The system allows you to see if that person has been onto the site to read your message. That person will then need to register if they wish to reply to your message. Once they have returned a message to you, your control panel will send an email to your registered address to alert you of this new message.
  You are then able to freely converse with this person as much as you wish, although you are only allowed to send one message at a time and must await their reply before you can send another message. These conversations are stored in your control panel so you can keep up to date with all the contacts you have made. One additional feature available is the option for you to pay for their registration so they are able to reply to you for free. If the person does not reply or is already registered with the site, you will be refunded for this "pay for response" option.  
 
 
 

If you've received a card

 
If you have received a card simply select the option "Been given a card?" from the home page . Enter the card number in the panel and you will be presented with the personal message, specifically written for you, from the person who gave you the card. If you wish to reply to them you will have to register, and of course you will also receive a complimentary pack (10) of cards to give out yourself.
   
 
 

General Notes

 
If at any point you no longer wish to be in contact with the other person (whether you have been the giver or receiver of the card) you have the option to simply delete the card number from your control panel. This will sever all links and no further communication can be made via the site with that person.

The whole nature of the web site is total security, no phone numbers or email addresses are exchanged unless you wish to divulge this. You also can be safe with the knowledge that you will not be pestered by anybody; the system only allows one message to be sent at a time and ensures that people cannot repeatedly send messages. You can also delete the card from your control panel at any time you wish.